4 things that determine the level of confidence an athlete has are:
1) Performance Accomplishments
2) Vicarious Experiences
3) Verbal Persuasion
4) Emotional Arousal
Now, let us cover each of the above 4 points in detail with steps that you can follow...
1. >> Performance Accomplishments:
How you've performed in the past has a huge impact on how you'll perform in the future. Your "stored memory" of past events shapes your level of confidence for the future, so how can you use this to your benefit?
Well, if you've played well in the past, remember those events, try to visualize them and re-live them in your head. Close your eyes and put yourself in those moments...imagine how you felt, how well you played, how easy the game was. Spend at least 10-15 minutes "visualizing" these positive experiences.
Now, whenever a "negative" past experience comes to mind, immediately stop thinking about it and instead focus on the positive events. You want to basically "erase" those bad memories from your head, and the only way to do it is to not pay any attention to them and "replace" them with good memories.
Remind yourself that the only thing that matters is the present and the future...it’s all you have, you can never go back in time. Once you fully realize that you're living in the present moment, your past won't haunt you anymore.
2. >> Vicarious Experiences:
When you watch good performances from other players with similar skill, talent, and physical abilities as you, it helps you build your confidence...
Make it a point to look for these types of people and watch them on a regular basis. Whether it’s at school, playgrounds, or the team, don’t be jealous of these individuals. Look at them as positive success stories, be proud of them, and know that if they can do it...you can do it. If they are able to achieve success...you can be even more successful.
Form a friendship with these types of people and use them as a support for yourself.
3. >> Verbal Persuasion:
First of all, talk to yourself on a regular basis, reminding yourself that you're a very good basketball player...you have a lot to offer your team...and the competition cannot stop you. Keep talking to yourself every day, morning and night. Eventually, you'll start believing it...
Next, ask coaches and players to encourage you as much as possible.
Surround yourself with people that have positive attitudes. The last thing you want is to have players yelling, screaming, criticizing...remove yourself from this and find players who overlook faults and give compliments.
4. >> Emotional Arousal:
Being emotionally charged can suddenly give you a boost of confidence, as long as you're feeling the right emotions. The types of emotions you want to avoid are frustration, anger, overconfidence, and anxiety...
Try this quick "mental" routine in the morning time, at night-time, and before a game. Start by taking at least 10 deep breaths, as deep as you can go, while closing your eyes. Stop thinking about everything. Just focus on your breathing and relaaaaaaaaxxx...
Once your mind is free and clear, think of a place where you would love to be...a place that makes you very happy. Maybe it’s the beach, maybe it’s on the basketball court. Everybody has a special place that they love. Think of this place and try to create a detailed image in your mind.
Now, imagine that there are lots of beautiful people around you, and you're the most popular person. Everybody likes you, wants to talk you, and you're the center of attention.
Practice this exercise every morning, night, and before a game.
Within just a few days, you'll notice how relaxed, how good, and how confident you feel.
The mind is a very powerful tool, use it your fullest advantage.
After all, the best players are the "mentally toughest" players...